Reflections on a Halloween Birthday
October 31 is Halloween. For most people this date is a day filled with fun, candy, costumes, and pumpkins. For me it is my mom’s birthday. My mom is no longer with us and has been gone for almost 10 years now. Most days I am the daughter of a mother who has gone before me. I don’t give it a lot of thought. Some days I don’t even think about her. Not because I don’t care or because I don’t love her, but because this is the norm. N o one knows this feeling or the pain that you bear unless if you have lost a parent. No one knows how much you miss someone unless if they have been in your shoes. And no one knows how sometimes you forget their face or the scent of their perfume. I am fortunate enough to have a son who looks like my mother in his side profile but not everyone is so lucky to have this daily reminder. I remember a few years ago that I was at my in-laws house for Halloween celebrating with all of the kids and their families....